When we help others, the idea is to benefit them. We’re trying to do our part to make the world a better place.
Interestingly, a lot of recent research indicates that helping people around us actually boosts our own health and happiness. Here are 8 ways that being kind and generous benefits our own well-being.
Benefits of helping others
It feels good
People have known for years that it feels good to help others, but only recently have researchers identified some physiologic changes that occur when we lend a helping hand. These changes include complex interactions between the parasympathetic and sympathetic nervous systems and a “helper’s high” (dopamine-mediated euphoria). As a result of these changes, we feel an increase in our happiness and a warm glow (a feeling researchers refer to as “moral elevation”).
It boosts self-esteem
Researchers have found that people who volunteer have higher self-esteem than people who don’t volunteer. This particular benefit increases with consistency—the more regularly one volunteers, the more his or her self-esteem and confidence increase.
It provides purpose
As we help others, we feel a sense of empowerment and fulfillment. We’re also able to see our roles in the world around us. According to researchers, these feelings and this perspective can help each of us gain a better understanding of our purpose and identity.
It cultivates optimism
Our own outlooks on life can be changed after we witness acts of kindness. Researchers have found that individuals who typically view the glass as being half-empty (i.e., pessimistic individuals) can become more positive and optimistic when they see how they can have positive impacts on the lives of others.
It helps keep things in perspective
Helping others gives us a front-row seat to witness their hardships. Seeing these difficulties can help us feel better about our own circumstances and practice gratitude.
It creates a sense of belonging and fosters friendships
While helping others, we have opportunities to meet new people, connect with our communities, and fellowship with existing friends. Therefore, face-to-face activities (volunteering at the food bank, driving an elderly neighbor to an appointment, taking a meal to a coworker who just had a baby, etc.) help reduce feelings of isolation and loneliness.
It is contagious
Researchers have found that kindness can resonate through communities. In other words, when people witness altruism, they tend to turn around and act altruistically towards others. Because of this, one simple act of kindness can have a ripple effect that benefits an entire community!
It promotes longevity
According to researchers, volunteering regularly can improve our stress management, help us stave off disease, and alleviate loneliness. All three of these things are known to increase both length of life and life satisfaction.
Final thoughts
I’m not suggesting that we be kind and help others because it makes us feel good. We’re supposed to help others regardless of how it makes us feel (Micah 6:8, Luke 10:27, Ephesians 4:31-32, Philippians 2:4, etc.). However, there’s no reason not to embrace and enjoy these benefits of altruism. In fact, the Bible even speaks of some of these benefits:
“A generous person will be enriched, and the one who provides water for others will himself be satisfied.” Proverbs 11:25 (NET)
If you’d like to read more about the benefits of helping others, then check out my sources:
- How Volunteering Can Help Your Mental Health
- If You Want to Be Happy, Try to Make Someone Else Happy
- What We Get When We Give
- How Kindness Spreads in a Community
- How Our Bodies React to Seeing Goodness
- Kindness Matters Guide
How do you feel when you help others? Do any of these benefits ring true for you?
Shared at the following:
Encouraging Hearts and Home, Busy Monday, and Grace and Truth.
AnneMarie Miller says
It’s interesting to see that there’s a bit of a science behind altruism-how fascinating! I think the point about it providing purpose is a big one-I remember years ago, when we lived in a small apartment complex, there was a man (probably 50s) who really didn’t seem to have much going on in his life. One time, he helped me out with something-I cannot even recall what-and when I thanked him, he remarked that “it feels good to be needed” and “I’m glad I could do something useful.” I think particularly for adults who are alone and/or empty-nesters and may not have a church community (or any community) perhaps doing some sort of community service could be a good way to help them see that everyone has a beautiful purpose and calling from God to love others, even if they don’t believe in God.
Shannon says
I think most of us–like this neighbor you had–want to contribute and be needed. Serving others definitely gives us this!
The science is very fascinating! It’s a great reminder that science isn’t in competition with Scripture. In this case, it actually confirms some things we read in the Bible!
Linda Stoll says
Shannon, good morning! So many of us are trying to figure out what our calling and purpose is in this {hopefully} new season of freedom. Serving God and serving others is the key. I love this post.
Shannon says
Great point about keeping God and others at the forefront of our minds as we enter this new season, Linda!
Lisa Blair says
And it gives us a front-row seat of God’s love and provision for others.
Shannon says
Hi Lisa,
That’s a great addition to the list! Indeed, we do get to see the work that God is doing for others.
Paula Short says
So beautifully spoken Shannon. Thank you for sharing this blessed message today. Blessings.
Shannon says
Thanks, Paula!
Michele Morin says
Thanks for this focus. We are better together!
Shannon says
“We are better together.” Great way to sum it up, Michele!
Lisa notes says
So true that everybody benefits when we help others, not just those we help! I’ve found this to be true in my own life. It also motivates me to allow others to help me when I need it, instead of robbing them of their blessing by refusing to allow them to help.
Shannon says
That’s a really important point, Lisa. When we need help, we need to let others help us. It allows them to experience these same benefits…plus we get the help we need! Thanks for reminding us of this!
Lisa notes says
I’ll be featuring your post tomorrow at the Grace & Truth linkup at my blog!
Shannon says
Thanks, Lisa!