When my husband and I were in premarital counseling, our facilitators placed a lot of emphasis on continuing to date once we were married. We thought it sounded like a nice idea, but didn’t understand why they emphasized it so much. Fast forward to now and hindsight shows us why. Life is busy and full of demands that draw our attention … [Read more...] about A Year of Preplanned Dates Gift Idea
Enriching Marriage
The Sounds in a Home with a God-Honoring Aura (Part 1)
The sounds in a home contribute significantly to its aura—the overall quality it emits. As I discussed two weeks ago, I’m seeking to create a home that has a God-honoring aura. Voices are one of the predominant sounds in most homes. Thankfully, the Bible has a lot to say about communication. If we follow the principles set forth in … [Read more...] about The Sounds in a Home with a God-Honoring Aura (Part 1)
The Dream in Fulfillment: What My Interracial Marriage Has Taught Me About Racial Harmony in the U.S.
I tend to be reflective on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day because it is Dr. King and other leaders like him who pioneered the changes that make my marriage possible. As many of you know, I am white and my husband is black. I’m often asked about our experience with interracial marriage. Did your family accept him? Did his family accept you? Is it … [Read more...] about The Dream in Fulfillment: What My Interracial Marriage Has Taught Me About Racial Harmony in the U.S.
Why and How to Take a Goal Planning Retreat with Your Spouse
Throughout the year my husband and I look forward to the winter weekend when we will get away and set goals for the coming year. While goal setting might not be at the top of most couples’ lists of activities to do while on a getaway, we find it to be incredibly meaningful. Last week I explained why we find it beneficial to set goals as … [Read more...] about Why and How to Take a Goal Planning Retreat with Your Spouse
Setting Goals as a Couple
As the New Year approaches each winter, my husband and I set aside a weekend to focus on setting goals for the upcoming year. This is one of the most beneficial activities we complete together. Let’s consider why it's beneficial to set goals in general and why it’s especially beneficial to set them together. I’ll also share a copy of … [Read more...] about Setting Goals as a Couple
Embracing Quirks
Sometimes my husband comes into the kitchen as I finish preparing dinner. He’ll share a story or ask me a question as I line up our drinks and food to be transported to the table. I feel it’s pretty obvious at these times that I could use a hand transporting our dinner to the table, yet my husband exits the kitchen completely oblivious to my … [Read more...] about Embracing Quirks
Movies: A Good or Bad Date Idea?
My husband loves watching movies, so he thinks movies make great dates. I’m frequently unimpressed by movies, so I’m not so sure. Let’s look at some advantages and disadvantages associated with movie dates, as well as some things that can be done to enhance this classic date idea. Advantages of movie dates Movies can spark … [Read more...] about Movies: A Good or Bad Date Idea?
Birthday Gift Idea: A Good Night for My Knight
My husband’s birthday was last week. As it approached, I brainstormed gift ideas and searched Pinterest for a handmade birthday card I thought I could mimic. The latter task was somewhat unfruitful—most of the cards I saw on Pinterest were far too elaborate for my rudimentary skills! My brainstorming was a bit more effective, though. My … [Read more...] about Birthday Gift Idea: A Good Night for My Knight
